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Buying a Home 101 Series – Week 4
This step-by-step series will take you through the entire home-buying process — from finding a buyer’s agent to settlement day, and all the details in between. Every first-time buyer will find this information-packed series easy to follow and understand. Make sure to tune in for the next few weeks!
Coming up with a lump sum of money for a down payment can be scary and daunting to many first-time buyers. You definitely don’t want to wipe out your entire savings to purchase a home.

It doesn’t have to be a roadblock to homeownership!
Once you’ve got your monthly budget all set and know approximately how much home you can really afford (see Do the Math – A Mortgage You Can Afford article in the series), the next step is dealing with your down payment.
Here’s some guidance on where you can find cash for your down payment and also a rundown of some great homebuyer assistance programs that can help reduce the amount taken out of your own pocket.
How Much Down?
How much money you need for a down payment can depend on the type of mortgage you will get for your financing.
However, the amount you put down really depends on YOU. If you’re a first-time buyer, don’t put all of your savings into your house. You may need some of that cash once you’re a homeowner.
Instead, put down just enough to buy the house and get a monthly payment that works for your budget right now.
These days, you don’t have to put 20% down to avoid paying monthly Private Mortgage Insurance (PMI). Monthly PMI is typically not tax deductible (check with your tax advisor since it depends on your situation), so most people want to avoid it.
Once you narrow down your mortgage options and take into account any homebuyer assistance programs, you’ll have a better idea of how much you’ll actually need for your down payment. Next week you’ll learn more about mortgage options out there so stay tuned for that!
Here’s a rundown of where to find money for your down payment:
Help from Homebuyer Assistance Programs
As a first-time homebuyer, you may qualify for many of the state and local assistance programs available, many of which could help cover some of your down payment. Plus, several lenders also offer grant programs that can help with down payment and closing costs.
If you’re a first-time buyer with a moderate income, you should look into these programs before you consider other options … it’s like free money toward your purchase!
For instance, many assistance programs could be a good match for you and your circumstances. Definitely make it a priority if you’re a state, country or city employee since many local jurisdictions want to make it possible for you to work and live in the same community.
I can give you a complete update of current programs for first-time buyers. Don’t hesitate to contact me.
Should You Tap into Your Retirement Accounts?
You may have a nest egg of cash that you thought was off limits! These options below may not be the best choice for you, but they are something to consider if funds are needed.
Keep in mind, you will need to follow some set rules to access this money, and should always consult with an advisor to clearly understand any tax implications.
Remember if you leave or lose your job, you may have to pay back the entire amount in 60 days or sooner. So be sure you understand any tax consequences, penalties, and charges as well as repayment terms.
If you and your spouse are both first-time buyers, each of you may pull from your retirement accounts, giving you a total of $20,000 in cash.
Keep in mind, any withdrawals from a traditional IRA must be reported as income and taxes must be paid. This $10,000 is a lifetime limit — and must be used within 120 days of receiving it.
Reach Out to Friends and Family
You might be reluctant to ask your family, but they can be a great source for your down payment. You will need to decide if this is a gift or a loan. Your parents might have done the same thing when they bought their first house!
Boost Your Savings
This is one area where you have some control over and should start making an effort as soon as you even begin thinking about buying a home. The earlier you start, the more you can increase your personal savings.
Do you still need to make sense of all the mortgage options out there? It’s definitely not “one-size-fits-all” these days! Let’s discuss your specific financial situation and what’s possible for you. This is the part at stops most buyers who can afford a home, simply because they don’t have all the information they need to make the right decision.
If thinking you don’t have enough to put down is stopping you, email me and let’s schedule a time to talk more and see! I can help give you an honest assessment of whether you can move forward or if you it would be best to wait a few months or years.
Next week’s article goes over all the details in the Five Steps to Obtaining a Mortgage. If I don’t hear from you before then, enjoy your week and stay tuned to next week’s article for even more information about how to get the best loan for YOU!
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